It is very interesting how life plays out… I was calling to “check in.” What really happened was that the LORD used his words to smack me in the face. I started our conversation talking about what I am reading/ studying and the dialogue commenced. Right along the hour and 15 min. mark he said something like your recovery should be about yourself. “Its not for your kids or your family,
How could he know that I am living a life filled with feelings of being worthless? Does he know what God has been saying to me in the deep recesses of my heart and mind? Surely not! I needed these words. I was both encouraged and admonished by the way that God chose to use my friend to speak into my life. I at my core am not worthy of the type of intense focus that I have been giving my recovery. I view my family as the “worthy” bunch,mainly because of the way I have drug them through my own corner of hell for the past decade plus! What I have not been fully acknowledging is that because of God’s sacrifice of Jesus, His Son, I am made worthy!!
I am reading further in Edward Welch’s book today; “Addictions, A Banquet in the Grave.”
Enter Divine Design again…. I have a tendency, mainly because I am so analytical or nit-pickish, to try and find where authors are wrong in their personal notions and flat out misuses of Scripture. I have found no personal shading, as I call it, and no misuse either. What I have found however is, as I was about to land the blow to “Sir Welch” on not saying his opinion may fall short of ‘the full” He sates this,
You should read and look for the similarities in your addiction flavor and the ones
In summation, all are representing my heart and desire to be independent from God. Idolatry is a scary thing, I didn’t even know I have become an abject worshipper of myself. Talk about selfishness, just not the right angle.
Its lunch time and I need to chew on this for a bit… I’ll take a side of macaroni with that thanks.
Blessings… I think..